Lifte Stages

 For most of us our faith or "what are we going to be is decided"
 at the time of our birth itself
 
 If a person wanted to be a Doctor & if he is not able to fulfill that then he might or
 want his son to be the Doctor & by doing so they feel privileged that they have achieved the goal

 People generally has this tendency to tell people that his son or daughter is very clever,sharp
 and try to show case there children by saying the below

 Asking there kids to show nose,ears different parts of the body,mouths ,numbers and songs from the kinder garden

 "Twinkle Twinkle little star" :)
  Asking there kids to talk in English
 Asking there kids to sing songs
 Asking there kids to Dance :)

 This part of the life is called "Showcasing"


 Enjoy this phase of life with your children's & experience the childhood once again.
 Spend quality time with your kids rather than on your profession.
 Money is important but you should not stay away from home,family kids.
 Don't worry too much about your child's future as far as you give good education to your kids.

 Part2 is during the school phase from First Standard to 6th ,
 This phase kids just learn almost everything from school so you should be checking about your kids academics & extra curricular activities
 because if kids get well with friends & comfortable that is when they can freely learn in school.
 Keep check of there studies,extracurriculars.
 Encourage your kids on taking new hobbies,don't always pressurize your kids on studies allow them
 to have a balanced life style where they get to enjoy play study.
 
 I have seen many parent comparing kids marks to someone who is scoring more & criticizing.
 This will make no good to you & your kids.
 Motivate then to score more marks rather then comparing & criticizing.Give some small perks now and then to motivate & inspire them to study more.

 Cultivating some hobbies adds creative thinking in kids rather than traditional mugging up.
 Hobbies like reading,painting,photography,dancing.
 
 Boarding school are often preferred by parent to get there children's a better future.
 I don't believe in boarding school as i think its the best years of life which need to be enjoyed with family
 and if you are following children's academics,behavior,extra curricular activities then i guess they can do better in home itself.

 This age need lot of love & support and a attachment with family generally happens in childhood.

 I have seen people where many have there kids with there Grandparent,family when they have being going places on job transfers.
 Kids will not be in touch with family & will get use to it & there dies the attachment with parents.
 Kids will not be completely open with any body.

 Just wherever you go get along with your family & kids.

   Part3 (Standard 7th to 10th)
 Many people are missed guided about the children's potential in this phase as there is so many
 copying goes on during the public exams that a guy scores about 70-80 by copying & parent
 if they are not following there children's studies they might get carried away with the results
 which does not reflect there true potential of there children

 No kid who has scored 70-80 by copying will admit that he has scored the marks by copying

 So if parents don't know about there children's potential they might think about ambitious course like Medical engineering
 & end up the kid in highly challenging course which might be beyond the par of the kids


 this will hinder the child confidence


 Plan in advance about the child's future like what profession he or she wants to choose

 discuss with the kids to know the interest of the child

 Consulting & guidance is what lacks in our India i guess.

 A good guidance helps a lot in choosing a career

Will continue on
 Part 5 ( Life in College)
 Part 6 ( Life in Degree)
 Part 7 ( Life in Profession)
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